I think it's getting to the point
Where I can be myself again
He means he is finding the courage to speak up about what he needs from the current relationship. For too long, he has put up with a relationship that’s become selfish and stale, but trying to rebuild it (last line) takes a lot of work — “that is the hardest part.
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